Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Setbacks


I love the saying "Life is full of setbacks, Success is determined by how you handle setbacks" and it’s so true as I have learned through my whole life of these irritating "setbacks". Of course as I get older and face more and more of them I am learning how to better myself through theses annoyances such as now starting our new venture Crossroads with my beloved friends Kim and Aymii. Holy setbacks just last night! Finding the perfect piece of property, bidding on the perfect property the emotional highs and lows uncertainty and pure excitement racing through your body at the same time...you celebrate...and then 2 minutes later running around like headless chicken cause there is a last minute email you just read from your wonderful realtor that the paperwork was revised and needs to be signed and sent back in ASAP!!! And you say HOLY S#@T WHY WHY WHY????!! why can’t anything ever go smooth! Well, I guess it’s because there is always a lesson involved however, it seems that things always works out somehow, and yes, it worked out. As I was leaving Kim’s house last night, my minds thoughts were, the three of us were celebrating that fact that our money situation would work. I read the "urgent" email in just enough time for me to get to Kim’s house to sign and fax updated paperwork and Carole's delayed text message stating all was good to go and I was clear to head home gave the storm passing over us just enough time to end and return home before dark, so yes, it all worked out until a new setback that may present itself today! I end with saying I believe if things don’t go your way we must trust in some way that every difficulty carries within the kernel of an equal or greater benefit. Ask yourself: “What’s good about this?”, “What can I learn from this?”, and “How can I benefit from this?”

~Nina